There comes a time when what once felt
natural begins to falter.
Tasks take longer, memories slip, and
patience from others grows thin.
This poem does not ask for sympathy, nor
does it offer easy comfort.
It simply gives voice to the quiet
indignity of being measured, hurried,
and blamed—when all that has changed is
the passage of time.
“It’s All Right
Not to Be Able”
Being hurried—
the anxiety of things that must be done.
The frustration of what once could be done
but now cannot.
The irritation of being made to do things.
Being tested—
the anger of being forced to prove what you
can do.
The resentment of what you can no longer
do.
The resignation that says
it’s all right not
to be able.
Being blamed—
the shame of being known as unable.
The pain of being known as diminished.
The defiance that says,
so what if I can’t?
Why is it that
simply because one has grown old,
one must be hurried,
tested,
and blamed—
why must one endure such humiliation?
It is only that
forgetfulness has grown
a little more frequent.